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9-11: A Day that Went from Bad to Worse

September 11, 2014 by costaricaguy Leave a Comment

9-11: A Day that Went from Bad to Worse

This post first appeared in the CRG blog on September 11, 2010…

I was in Hawaii on September 11, 2001. The time there is 6 hours behind that of the east coast of the U.S. So I groggily answer a call around 4:00 am from an employee of Live Oak Capital (my former company) that informed me that the U.S was under terrorist attack. “Huh,” was my foggy brained response. And right after that (as I began to awaken, perturbed by the call), “is this some kind of a joke” (or something to that effect). Flipping on the tube I found out quickly that no it was definitely not a joke.

I always get mesmerized by these 9-11 anniversaries when we relive each and every second of that fateful morning. Surely there has never been an event in world history that was as carefully documented and broadcasted live as 9-11. And each and every videotape serves as a precious reminder of just how vulnerable even the greatest superpower can be.

What is always most inspiring on these days of remembrance and what always tends to make one a little prouder to be from the U.S., is the level of courage and selflessness on display that day. Political, ideological, ethnic, religious, or economic differences ceased to matter. For a brief moment, what mattered most was preserving life. And many lost theirs in the attempt.

The decision by those courageous “average joes” (who in reality were anything but) on flight 93, who in an instant, as soon as they figured out exactly what the five hi-jackers were really up to, decided to put an end to their plot, is heroic beyond words that I am capable of expressing. Likewise the courage of N.Y.C. police and firefighters who stormed into those burning buildings and then up those stairwells to hell, is also hard to describe with mere words. And then there were the ordinary citizens, caught up in something they certainly hadn’t planned for that morning, who simply helped one another.

I heard a quote today that came close to offering up at least semi-adequate words.

That the 9-11 tragedy showed us the worst of our enemies and the best of ourselves.

Some would use the event of 9-11 to provoke hatred. I would rather remember it to inspire love, love of country, but also love of humanity. That is what will conquer evil.

Yes, 9-11 was a day that went from bad to worse, but on that day a country went from great to greater.

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Filed Under: The Big US Tagged With: 9-11, the big us

The Public Flogging of Ray Rice

September 10, 2014 by costaricaguy Leave a Comment

The Public Flogging of Ray Rice

OK, you know sometimes these public floggings of celebs caught red-handed (these days routinely exposed by Youtube video) can get almost as ugly as the events that precipitate them.

Yes, I am appalled and disgusted by the video of Ray Rice punching out his fiance in an elevator. I don’t want to see it again…ever.

I would like a show of hands…

How many have endured familial episodes of domestic violence (by the way, my own hand is raised right now)?

Violence in any form is despicable. Violence against women and children, even more-so.

And it occurs in millions of homes and situations across the land every moment of every day.

Should it be roundly condemned?

Of course it should.

Should one man be singled out for selective judgment against every episode of domestic abuse?

No, in my opinion he shouldn’t.

According to the predominant religion of the land, we’ve already had someone sacrificed for “our” sins.

Oh for sure, the natural reaction to a video like that is to seek vengeance.

It seems every guy out there wants to punch Ray out…probably a few who are just as guilty as he is.

And every woman would surely like to see him subjected to an even worse and more permanent fate.

But vengeance won’t solve the bigger problem.

Violence against violence usually begets more of the same.

Scapegoating one guy who happens to be a pro football star, who was caught in the act, is not going to solve this issue.

It’s kinda like capital punishment. Sure it makes us feel better that “justice” has been administered…

but the crime still goes on, wholly undeterred.

My views should in no way be taken as excusing the behaviour of Ray Rice. He should be punished and he will be (in fact, he’s already been pretty severely “clocked”).

Should his life be completely and utterly destroyed?

No, I don’t think so…not if he’s truly repentant about the act.

And it appears that he is.

So, why not get away from publicly crucifying one man and place our focus on the much bigger issue…

Violence, specifically in this case, domestic violence…

but maybe its a good excuse to attack the whole issue of violence in our society…in general…

because, in my opinion, there’s way too much of it.

How often do domestic violence incidents, as well as violent acts in general, take place on our TV sets and in our movie theatres…as well as the stands of National Football League games?

Speaking as one who endured the horror of domestic violence as a child…

(you see, the victims aren’t just the ones that get battered.)

I will say that the sort of violence that occurred on that video is deplorable, but in reality it’s something that we humans do to one another all too often.

How about we just stop that altogether?

That’s the point of this post.

You see, the issue is really not Ray Rice…

It’s us.

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Filed Under: Removing Impact Blinders Tagged With: Ray Rice, removing impact blinders

Matter Matters

September 9, 2014 by costaricaguy Leave a Comment

If It's Matter, It Matters

Sometimes I run across things I’ve written years ago that still seem quite relevant today…

Like this matter-full post from way back when…actually the reference to my age gives it away, since I’m now 53 (well, almost 54)…

Maybe it’s just me, but it seems that there’s something different about the world these days.

People seem to be a bit more edgy and fearful now than any time since I was born 48 years ago.

Of course, I didn’t live through the two great world wars, the Great Depression, the Holocaust, or other seminal world events of the past.

Maybe this same eery and unpleasant feeling was lingering in the air back then as well.

But something strange is in our air, or “airwaves”, since everything now is media driven…

sometimes I believe to the point of being “driven” right off a cliff.

I can hear it in my mother’s voice when I talk with her.

People are fearful about stuff, or maybe I should say fearful about losing their “stuff.”

And that brings me to the topic of today’s post, matter.

In my simplistic and wholly unscientific view the universe is divided into two categories of matter.

You have the things that are natural, such as all forms of life, the earth itself, the atmosphere, oceans, land, and everything else natural that the universe contains.

Then you have the things that are man-made.

One exists by the hand and will of god (or perhaps the “god particle”) and the other by the hand and will of, well, us.

It seems that most of the problems we pay attention to in the world today are those that pose threats to all the man-made stuff.

Protecting the natural world at the expense of our laser-like focus on the man-made shit is scoffed at by too many of us.

But doesn’t it all matter…really?

Now I’m not advocating that we all go back to living in caves and hunting and gathering.

But I am advocating that there be some balance restored in our approach to what matters…

because it all does.

We have gone so far in creating a world of comfort for ourselves at the expense of the natural that we are at the tipping point where our actions are having a profound and negative effect on the natural world.

In short, we’re pissing off Mother Nature.

This obsessive focus on man-made material comfort, a focus that says only “we” matter, is getting us in a lot of trouble these days.

The climate is changing because of it.

Organisms are disappearing.

The order of nature is being upset.

Greed is now good.

And we are literally consuming ourselves out of existence.

And everyone wants to blame everyone else.

It’s the Republicans fault. No, it’s the Democrats that did it. No, the Muslims! The Christians! No, says Trump, it’s those damn Chinese…

and so it goes without end.

The truth is we’re all at fault, every single one of us.

Because we, the human organism, are the only form of matter that has the ability to destroy this planet…well, short of a wayward asteroid, or an unstable Higgs Boson particle.

And we are doing a pretty darn good job of it.

The jaguar can’t do that. They just live according to their god-given instincts. They can’t decide to build an atomic bomb, or kidnap other animals for ransom, or commit any of the millions of dastardly deeds that humans inflict upon themselves.

They don’t burn or chop down the forest, or go to war with other animals.

They just live according to the plan that was laid out for them.

So, what’s the plan for us?

Are we living according to the right plan, or have we gotten off track?

I think what needs to occur is that we stop making every argument a political one, especially those that concern our planet and the health of it.

That we start taking action to correct the errors that have brought us to where we are now.

That doesn’t mean that we lose our comforts of life, our homes and cars, cities, planes, railroads and all those other things that make us feel better, or superior.

It just means that we start recognizing that it is not just all the man-made stuff that matters…because it all does.

Costa Rica is a country that is pretty low on the totem pole in terms of its rate of consumption compared with the developed countries of the world.

And it’s a place where folks do seem to get it when it comes to the idea that the natural world does matter.

I guess it’s easier to have a deep respect for nature when you’re surrounded by so much of it.

Maybe Costa Rica and other biodiversity hot spots around the world (the few that are left) can serve as giant classrooms to teach us humans that the natural world does matter.

That would be a pretty cool thing to see happen.

Maybe then we humans could come to realize that matter matters, whatever form it might take.

That realization is at the heart of impact mindfulness.

I hope we’re not too late.

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Filed Under: Removing Impact Blinders Tagged With: removing impact blinders

The Race Card

September 4, 2014 by costaricaguy 2 Comments

The Race Card

You know, it’s funny how the use of “the race card” is decried as being foul-play by some…

as if racism no longer mattered, or even existed…

Oh noooo, racism shouldn’t even be considered a factor…

When a white cop on a police force that is 95% white shoots and kills an unarmed black teenager in a community that is 67% black…

When our nation’s first black President can’t do anything (repeat NOT ANY ONE SINGLE SOLITARY THING) to please or appease the Tea Party crowd, which happens to be 90% white…

When unemployment among black Americans almost always doubles that of white…

When black Americans account for about 40% of the total prison population in the U.S., despite being only 14% of the total population…

When racist comments from celebrities and business moguls bubble to the public surface, routinely…

When virulent racism can easily be detected simply by reviewing the millions of Facebook comments and Twitter posts about “our” President…

When more than a third of impoverished Americans are black, as opposed to about 13% who are white…

When churches throughout the U.S., especially in the south, are still predominantly divided along racial lines…

When communities throughout the U.S., especially in the south, are still predominantly divided along racial lines…

When in my own experience, friends and acquaintances who would never admit to harboring one iota of racism in public, will readily admit their secret desire to get that [expletive] out of the “white” house…

There’s a lot of talk out there about truth, usually in the form of opinion masquerading as such.

In my opinion, the facts speak for themselves and disclose the real truth…

That the race card is still in the deck and as long as it is, it will and should be legitimately played.

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Filed Under: Removing Impact Blinders Tagged With: racism, removing impact blinders

The Modern Rimbaud

September 2, 2014 by costaricaguy Leave a Comment

On Becoming Modern

Il faut être absolument moderne (One must be absolutely modern).

Arthur Rimbaud, from Adieu (Farewell), A Season in Hell

I am intrigued by Rimbaud’s admonition.

He, the wild poet seer, who abandoned the verse at the ripe old age of 20, to become…

“modern?”

I guess what he’s really saying is that after all the existentialist poetic poppycock, one must get down to the brass tacks of becoming…

“industrious.”

Which is exactly what Rimbaud did, until he died of cancer at age 37.

After writing the above line in his parting Farewell, he never wrote another verse…

but he did make some money…

a feat he never seemed to get around to accomplishing beforehand.

I seem to have lived my life in the opposite trajectory…

passing through the industrial stage to come out the other side, some sort of existential idealist.

Even though that hasn’t aided me in the least economically, I’m thankful that my life is unfolding (so far) in this absurd reverse chronological order.

For, in my opinion, to become a modern man-sized industrialist is to lose one’s general lust for a poetic and artful life…

Our quest for physical comfort supersedes and eclipses any hint of idealism that might have once been a motivational flame to our backsides.

In fact, the world is dominated by men (and women, albeit, perhaps to a lesser extent) who have modernized.

These are practical and hard-nosed types who quickly abandon the ideal for the real.

For that real world that we actually live in…that we face head-on day in and day out in the epic battle to simply exceed survival.

In such a quest, how can anyone be anything but self-interested…

when there are saber-toothed tigers roaming the asphalt jungles of our daily treading?

Men who have become modern have no time nor need for trivial ideals that spur actions undertaken for the collective good.

What is that, they ask, some sort of bleeding heart notion that there’s a purpose for my life grander than me?

Rubbish!

The capitalistic machinery of our society demands modernity. It demands industrial square cogs that fit into square holes…

not amorphous shapes that serve only to muck up the works.

That we serve our individual identities best when we refrain from activities that don’t blend well with the rest…

don’t stand out…don’t color outside the lines…

and for god’s sake, don’t spend your precious and limited industrious time thinking idealistic thoughts of how you might be here to enhance the life experience of another.

Hmm…interesting…

I believe I prefer the pre-modern Rimbaud.

The one whose skin was corroded by dirt and disease, hair and armpits crawling with worms, with still larger ones crawling inside his heart.

The seer who brought a vision of the world to us with combinations of words never heard before.

The idealist who shunned bourgeois industrial modernity for a bohemian rhapsodic experience of life.

If you think about the life of this young and remarkable poet, he is most remembered by his surprisingly short pre-modern existence…

That’s when and where he made his impact.

Perhaps the same could hold true for you and me.

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From Belief to Ideology

August 31, 2014 by costaricaguy Leave a Comment

From Belief to Ideology

If you got nothing new to say, re-say something old. And, fortunately, there’s a lot out there that I’ve said that I can choose from.

Some of it embarrassing, but some of it, actually quite illuminating, in my not-so-humble opinion…

Here’s one on moving from belief to ideology.

I remember some self-help guru (I believe it was Tony Robbins) said that it really doesn’t matter if your beliefs are true or not, as long as they’re useful.

While that seems to be a slightly cynical statement, it does have a tinge of truth.

Where do our beliefs come from?

Well, they come from our experiences, traditions, parents, culture, etc.

If you grow up in a christian home, you’ll be inclined to adopt similar beliefs. Whereas if you grow up in, say, a muslim home, you’ll be more likely to adopt a quite different set.

If you grow up in communist China or Russia, you might not hold fast to the idea that western capitalism is the path to prosperity.

Does that make one belief right and the other wrong?

No, because the truth is that no matter what you “believe,” you cannot prove empirically that an opposing or different belief is wrong or untrue.

Believing is different than knowing. I know the sun will rise in the morning and set in the evening. I don’t “believe” it to be true.

Beliefs are based on a certain degree of faith. The stronger that faith, the stronger the belief.

They’re not all religious. You can have beliefs about many things…politics, business, personal development, and so on.

In the previous 173 posts (referring to the old CRG blog) I’ve provided a smattering of my own beliefs. I know that they probably seem to be uncentered and disorganized. Some liberal, others conservative. Some religious, others secular.

But you see one thing I don’t believe in is “labels.” I’m not going to try and organize my beliefs in such a way that folks would label me conservative or liberal, religious or secular, right or left-wing.

We tend to get far too concerned that our beliefs have to be consistent with a given ideology. That’s never a good thing.

Why?

Because it limits what you allow yourself to believe in.

Beliefs are the product of our search for truth.

There was a time when believing that the earth was anything but flat would get you labeled a heretic…maybe even executed.

Today, if you grow up in the bible-belt southern U.S.A., believing anything but the conservative or fundamentalist christian line may not get you executed, but it will get you exiled from membership in the club.

So we disallow ourselves from believing anything outside of the confines of the accepted ideology.

When beliefs get bolstered by community…that is, when what you believe is shared by all those you associate with…you run the risk of becoming someone who thinks he or she knows the truth…an ideologue.

And once you begin to think that your belief is absolute, empirical truth, it must mean that what everyone else believes is a lie (in short, heresy).

And that naturally leads to the idea that other “untrue” beliefs should be suppressed, quelled, or vanquished.

But I “know” that the human race’s search for truth is never served by suppression.

If it weren’t for the brave-hearted souls who dared to believe differently, in the face of the threat of condemnation or expulsion by the community of shared beliefs, then we would still think the world is flat.

In short, we would never know real truth.

Isn’t it curious how we tend to destroy ourselves over ideologies as opposed to scientifically knowable truth?

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