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The Curious Case of Roy Moore

December 10, 2017 by costaricaguy Leave a Comment

The Curious Case of Roy Moore

I have mixed feelings about this wave of sexual harassment allegations against rich and powerful men.

I’ve even been a fan of some of these characters…Louis C.K. and Al Franken in particular. However, they are “characters”, so misbehavior of a sexual variety on their part is not all that shocking to me.

For starters, I certainly believe that if a rich and powerful man attempts to take advantage of that position in order to coerce sexual favors, of any kind, that’s just plain wrong…and should be roundly condemned and, if the facts and elements of assault (or worse) are present, prosecuted. If this wave of outrage and condemnation is about exposing such behavior, then it’s a good thing.

But you’ll have to admit that the current phenomenon goes a bit further than that. We now have “anonymous accusers” suddenly empowered to “bring down” the celebrity or politician of their choosing. Could some of this be politically motivated? Well, it’s certainly possible, now isn’t it?

The bottom line is that we humans are sexual animals. We like sex. Sex is often a motivator for success in life, i.e., we are motivated to be more successful in order to get more sex. Women spend countless hours and dollars making themselves attractive to the male species. There’s nothing wrong with that…it’s natural. And when their efforts succeed, should they be allowed to cry foul and potentially ruin a career because the attraction got a little out of hand?

Well, perhaps yes and perhaps no…like most things in life, it depends on the facts…doesn’t it?

And then we come to the curious case of Roy Moore (while lurking in the shadows of the uproar circling around Moore is the even more egregious case of our sitting President)…

Moore, a professed devout evangelical, has been accused of sexually assaulting underage girls when he was in his 30’s. He’s now 70, so we’re talking about incidents that go back some 4 decades and are hardly prosecutable due to the statute of limitations for such crimes. So, we’ll never know for sure whether these allegations are true or not, will we?

Should 4 decade old allegations of sexual assault against minors disqualify a man from holding one of the highest offices in the land, that of a U.S. Senator?

Some say yes, others no. Ultimately the people of Alabama get to decide that issue. So, we will know for sure come election time on Tuesday.

However, the curious case of Roy Moore has peaked my curiosity for other reasons as well.

On the one hand, you have the allegations of some pretty bad sexual misbehavior. But even more troubling for me are his abhorrent ideological views.

Such as…

-clinging to the now completely debunked birtherism charge…

-his hatred towards gays…

-and Muslims…

-and his unconstitutional notions about the role religious views should play in actual government policy.

If you add all of the above together, it’s a pretty toxic mix.

Nevertheless, he very likely will win on Tuesday and become a sitting U.S. Senator. Apparently the ideological bent of the majority of Alabama voters is such that they see eye to eye with Moore…as crazy as that seems to me and many others.

Or is there something else going on?

Moore will of course give Republicans a more solid hold on the Senate and that will help Trump get his “agenda” passed. An agenda I of course vehemently disagree with.

Could it be that all this Republican support flowing towards Moore is motivated by pure political expediency?

That even though most Republicans find Moore abhorrent on many levels, they’re willing to hold their collective noses and support him anyway?

Hell, Trump even stated bluntly that political expediency is exactly the reason behind his support for Moore.

And that brings me to the salient point of this post on the curious case of Roy Moore …

One of the fundamental ideas that undergirds impact mindfulness is that of putting ones impact over self-interest. And it would seem that elevating a character like Moore to the office of U.S. Senator is a perfect example of the opposite, i.e., self-interest over impact.

Why do we keep doing that?

It seems that American politics has devolved into this ideological battle where one side must defeat the other, at all costs. Even the costs of electing a lunatic as Senator…or even as President.

The thing I’m afraid of is that ultimately we all will pay the costs of this type of thinking…and voting.

And one of the most impactful and patriotic ways to put one’s impact over self-interest is in how you vote.

Unless and until we can start voting for impact, rather than out of a sense of self-interest, or a sense of winning ideologically against the other side, we’re going to see the political divide in the country continue to grow to dangerously wide proportions.

It’s not about winning…it’s about governing.

And governing is about doing what’s best for everyone, not just those on your ideological team.

Filed Under: Impact over Interest Tagged With: Donald Trump, Roy More

My Life is Like the Grateful Dead

September 26, 2017 by costaricaguy 2 Comments

My Life is Like the Grateful Dead

I’ll readily admit it…I’m a deadhead.

Have been for a very long time…and I don’t believe it’s something I’ll ever “grow out of.”

At least, I hope not.

I woke early this morning with some weird Dead tune playing in my head…

I reflected for a moment and realized it was from the album Blues for Allah.

Actually, Blues for Allah was my introduction to the Dead, back in the late 70’s.

The tune in my head was one called The Music Never Stopped.

Blues for Allah is one of the Dead’s most esoteric and weird studio recordings…it’s a mixture of hard psychedelic jam infused with jazz and other genres.

The title track for the album is a eulogy to former Saudi Arabia King Faisal, a fan of the Grateful Dead who was murdered in the year the album was released.

You can get the album in its entirely here.

One of my most memorable live Dead shows was in Charlotte, N.C. I guess it must have been like 1985. I went with a couple deadhead buddies…driving an old VW van, of course.

I remember being molested harshly by the Charlotte police on the way in…for no reason other than we looked “hippie”, I guess.

We had dropped some really good acid (you could always get that at Dead shows) and I was tripping pretty heavily throughout the show. Towards the end, the band was playing a Dylan tune and either projecting, or I, along with the entire audience, was hallucinating, some grand image on the stadium ceiling.

It was, well, just plain weird and exuberant fun.

Our plan was to move on to the next show in Norfolk. We hooked up with some deadhead chicks heading in the same direction. However, I got sidetracked and ended up staying in Greensboro, N.C. with some girl I knew there. The others continued on.

And that’s how it was back in those days, when Jerry was still around.

Flash forward about a lifetime later and I remember my last Dead show, while I was a practicing lawyer, again in Charlotte…with my ex-wife.

No acid this time!

Jerry died that same year.

And suddenly the Dead were no more…at least not in the pure form that I had come to know and love over so many years.

So, why do I say that my life is like the Grateful Dead?

Well, if the members of the Dead were anything they were nonconformists.

Some people really hated the Dead, but did they care? No, because they knew who they were and what they were about. And that was all that really mattered to them…and the legions who abandoned normal conformists lives to follow them.

And if I’m anything, it’s nonconformist. That’s why I find myself sitting here in the jungles of Costa Rica, typing out this post…rather than in Charlotte, being an elevator jockey.

The Dead was an eclectic mix, both in terms of the members of the band itself, and the music they played.

There has never been anything like the Dead. They played everything from heavy duty psychedelic, to folk, blues, bluegrass, R&B and country. One of my favorite Dead country covers is Merle Haggard’s Mama Tried.

In essence, with the Dead, there just weren’t any boundaries.

I believe that idea also captures the essence of this Revolutionary Misfit. I don’t believe in boundaries, borders or anything else that limits our experience of this life…that limits our potential for impact.

The Dead were musical scientists. They experimented with different mixes of sounds and genres. I’ve heard some crazy stories about their studio sessions. They liked to throw things together to see what might “work.” They weren’t afraid to take risks.

And, boy, do I ever do that. This blog is an experiment. My life in Latin America has been a continuous “risk.” Some aspects of my life here have proven disastrous for sure. But it has been worth it.

The Dead never thought of selling out, for any reason, especially not for money. I respect that and desire to emulate their example in what I do for the remaining days I have here.

I sincerely believe in what I’m doing right now. And I will continue to throw things out there into the world to see what might resonate…all consistent with my worldview, of course.

The Dead had a great impact on their fans. They influenced world-views with music and that’s not an easy accomplishment.

They were financially successful only because they attracted a loyal fan base, a tribe, who followed them to the ends of the earth.

I will readily admit that my world-view, the one this blog is all about, is heavily shaped by music, especially that of the Grateful Dead.

And I am sure they will continue to be an influence until the day I leave this Brokedown Palace.

They were Revolutionary Misfits for sure…

Long live the Dead!

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Filed Under: Impact over Interest Tagged With: grateful dead, impact over interest

Positive Impactfulness

September 19, 2017 by costaricaguy Leave a Comment

positive impactfulness

Here’s one from the old Costa Rica Guy blog that I wrote before I ever conceived of the idea for Revolutionay Misfit and Impact Mindfulness as a comprehensive worldview.

But, as you can read, the idea was already germinating…

Virtually everything we do, or neglect to do, has an impact, positive or negative.  There are few things that we do that are completely neutral in terms of impact.

And this comes right down to the food we choose to eat and the clothes we choose to wear.  What we say.  Whether we smile when we greet others on the street.  How we conduct ourselves behind the wheel of our cars (or motorcycles, skateboards, bicycles, etc.).

To maintain oneself in an energetic and healthy state of existence, via eating good food and exercising regularly, has positive impacts on your job performance, your relationships, your creativity, etc.

And so on it goes.

So, I believe a positive motivational force can and should be impact mindfulness.

Tony Robbins is able to convince thousands upon thousands of people to come to his seminars and learn to be motivated to achieve success in life.

But maybe a simpler way to self-motivate is to stop and be mindful of the impacts that our decisions (or indecisions) have on others and the planet on which we reside.

The great ones that have walked among us, the ones we immortalize and who inspire us, were people who exercised impact mindfulness.

Think of Ghandi…ML King…Christ…they all practiced it.

All were far less concerned with fame or fortune than they were about having a positive impact on the world, even to the point of sacrificing their own well-being in pursuit of that aim.

The great ones that have walked among us, the ones we immortalize and who inspire us, were people who exercised impact mindfulness.

I really love to blog.  Lately I have been thinking how I can turn this labor of love into something that’s perhaps more than just a hobby. But in doing so I don’t want to rob myself of the motivation I have to write in order to have an impact…and nothing more.

I don’t want this blog to become, even if it’s only in my mind, a “vehicle” for me to gain fame, infamy, or fortune.

I want this blog to be a vehicle that inspires readers to live a life marked by positive impact.

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Filed Under: Impact over Interest Tagged With: impact mindfulness, positive impactfulness

The Fiction of Competitive Self-Interest

July 8, 2017 by costaricaguy Leave a Comment

The Fiction of Competitive Self-Interest

The natural order of things is that there exists within this vast universe, people, i.e., you and me. We are all connected by the fact that we came from and share…space.

Now, of course it’s also very true that you and I are different. We have different desires, tastes, world-views, goals, objectives, etc., etc. Humans have evolved as little bastions of will, each motivated to drive in different directions.

And that’s fine and dandy.

What’s not so fine, nor dandy, is the fiction of competitive self-interest. This fiction gives rise to irrational ideas. Ideas espoused by the likes of Ayn Rand. The idea that one can, and even should, pursue his or her “differences” at the expense of others doing the same. That it’s even a good thing for us to do so, when perhaps it really isn’t.

Now, where did this irrational idea of competitive self-interest originate? It certainly didn’t come from our natural world, or from the universe. We humans evolved from the stuff of exploding stars. But competitive self-interest didn’t. No, we sort of conjured that one up all on our own.

It seems the idea of competitive self-interest is largely the product of industrial age capitalist economic theory. I can’t really pin it on religion. The religions of the world tend to unite, rather than separate, their adherants. Granted, religions do separate those of competing religious affiliation, which is equally dangerous. But that’s a topic for a different post.

What I’m getting at is this fiction of competitive self-interest that gives rise to the notion that I should pursue my individual will, in the context of a world with scarce resources, at the expense of, or in competition with, other humans doing the same.

I’m not saying at all that we shouldn’t pursue our interests. That is, I should have goals for my life and I should pursue them. And so should you. But must I do so in ways that interfere with your pursuit? Because capitalist driven competitive self-interest suggests that “competition” is actually the key driver of human progress. That we must compete for what’s there. That the size of the pie is basically fixed and I better be about getting as big of a slice for me as I can.

Actually, that last part will be met with argument since a certain strain of capitalist economic thought says that the pie will actually be enlarged by individuals pursuing their competitive self-interest, so that everyone benefits.

That’s a nice theory, but in practice it hasn’t worked out very well…has it?

The facts of our present world, with inequality rising to unbearable proportions, belies the utility of the “trickle-down” strain of capitalist economic theory. In short, it ain’t trickling down!

The fiction of competitive self-interest is a function of the “system”, largely driven by capitalism. This is a fiction that we created and imposed on ourselves. It is not a function of the natural world that we live in.

So, the question becomes, is it a good fiction? Is it one worthy of adhering to?

The underlying premise of impact mindfulness is that it is not.

Impact mindfulness promotes the idea that we should prioritize impact over self-interest. That notion flies directly in the face of competitive self-interest. It argues rather for cooperative self-interest. That is, that we should pursue our human differences in a spirit of cooperation with our fellow humans…that we should help each other in that regard, not compete with each other.

The hardcore capitalist will read this and dismiss it as utopian poppycock.

However, our species evolved to be at the top of the food change via cooperation, not competitive self-interest. No, that entered into the mix only recently. And it has done some pretty serious damage to the world.

I’d even argue that competitive self-interest, along with competing religious affiliations, are the two fictions that will most likely lead to the extinction of our species.

The fiction of competitive self-interest, inspired by nations pursuing competing capitalist ideals, is the primary reason for most of the horrors flashing constantly across the news screens of our televisions, computers, Ipads, and smart phones.

A world in which warring nations, and the humans of which they are comprised, are in brutal competition for more stuff conjures up a dystopian vision of reality that perhaps you wouldn’t want to live in. However, that’s exactly where we’re headed these days.

Impact mindfulness suggests that we remove the blinder of competitive self-interest. That we pursue our human differences, self-interest, or individual wills in a spirit of cooperation, rather than competition. That we must do so within the fictitious current system, while peacefully trying to change it for the better.

The “system” of competitive self-interest is breaking down before our very eyes.

The point of this post is to see it for what it is…

not really real.

Rather than a world ruled by the fiction of competitive self-interested, I long to see one dominated by competitive self-expression. That is, a world in which humans compete freely to express their differences in ways that make the world more beautiful and life more wonderful for us all.

A world in which the sheer survival aspects of self-interest, those of food, water, shelter, clothing and good health, are met for all using the vast resources this great planet grants us all.

Is this a utopian dream?

Yes, of course it is.

It’s also one that’s possible, but only when and if we shun the fiction of competitive self-interest.


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Filed Under: Impact over Interest, Removing Impact Blinders Tagged With: competitive self-interest

What Does it Mean to Be an Expat?

December 26, 2016 by costaricaguy Leave a Comment

to be an Expat

I’ve been an expat in Costa Rica for a long time now. From a physical perspective being an expat means absence from one’s home country and presence in some foreign country.

However, to be an expat has more than simply physical connotations.

Let’s first discuss what it certainly does not mean…

To be an expat does not mean one is unpatriotic in any way. Some may feel that it does, but they’d be dead wrong.

In some ways I’ve grown more patriotic as a result of living out of the country for many years now. I believe that in large part stems from my being an observer, or someone on the outside looking in. I’ve been able to observe with a heightened sense of objectivity certain things about my country of birth that concern me deeply.

For example, I’ve been able to observe how U.S. interventionist or imperialistic polices have affected certain people negatively, which in my case means Latinos. I’ve been able to discern that if that has been the case in Latin America, perhaps our interventions in other areas of the world, such as the Middle East, have also been less than laudable.

I’ve been able to observe with a heightened sense of objectivity how the form of capitalism run amok that prevails in my country of birth has widened the inequality gap. It has also led to a reckless disregard for how the pursuit of money and material has taken a heavy toll on the well-being of people and planet. Sometimes those effects aren’t as readily apparent to those on the inside of a wealthy nation like the U.S. as they are to those in the so-called 3rd world.

These observations have not caused me to have contempt for my country, but rather to long for it to be the world leader for positive change that it historically has been.

The U.S. has in large part lost its way in that regard. And the entire world is suffering for it. The world needs the U.S. to lead in positive directions, away from soaring income and wealth inequality, and away from dependence on fossil fuels. But the U.S. refuses to lead. And the recent election of Donald Trump only strengthens its resistance to assume the role of positive leadership in the world at large.

To be an expat means to have one’s eyes opened. To get the chance to really see things from the perspective of others who are very different. It provides ample opportunities to exercise the empathy muscle and to improve one’s capacity for altruism and impact. I call that expat mindfulness.

To be an expat does not have to mean permanent physical removal from presence in one’s country of birth. The ability to go back is always an option. Of course, one can also be a part-time expat.

I believe time in a foreign country can truly heighten one’s ability to make an impact in one’s country of birth. It sensitizes you to things you might otherwise be desensitized to. It heightens your sense of awareness. You become a more well-rounded human being. And all those are very positive traits from undergoing the expat experience and increasing your expat mindfulness.

I’ve written much in the past in my blogs and books about how being an expat in Costa Rica has changed me. It has made me a more humble and compassionate person. Some of my former friends and family members in the U.S. will say that it’s turned me into a left-wing loon.

Well, it has made me more progressive. It has made me more inclusive. It has allowed me to see the error of capitalism run amok in ways that I probably would’ve never detected without the expat experience. It has made me care more about my impact than about my economic self-interest. It has allowed me to see things more from the perspective of the Big US. It has removed many impact blinders that I came to Costa Rica wearing.

In short, it has been responsible for implanting impact mindfulness as my current mindset and worldview.

In that sense, I guess it has turned me into what I like to call, a Revolutionary Misfit. However, I don’t view that transformation in any negative light.

If you’re thinking of taking the plunge and moving to a foreign country, perhaps motivated by the recent election, remember this…no matter where you go, you’ll still be an “American” by birth. If you love your country it can actually make you love it more, albeit for different reasons. It will make you long for change and might even provide the motivation to be a catalyst for that change yourself.

To be an expat and thereby increase one’s expat mindfulness can be an intensely patriotic endeavor. [It’s Tweetable!]

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Filed Under: Impact over Interest, Removing Impact Blinders, The Big US Tagged With: Expat Mindfulness, impact mindfulness

Expat Mindfulness

November 23, 2016 by costaricaguy 2 Comments

Expat Mindfulness

Donald Trump is President. That’s a fact.

That will mean different things to different people. Some will rejoice. Others will lament.

But what will it really mean, in general, for people and planet?

More than likely it will mean change. Things are probably going to change in the U.S.A. and in the world. The question is, will they change for the better?

I’ve been writing in my blog for quite a while now that America, and the world, does in fact desperately need a change in direction. I just don’t believe that Donald Trump is the right one.

Trump’s election will most likely usher in a renewed sense of “putting America first”, or of “American Exceptionalism”…as if the rest of the world just doesn’t matter all that much.

And in that effort, jobs will likely be created. Heck, the stock market is already rallying in anticipation of all that pent-up demand being released into the market-sphere.

However, I have a sense that there are many, millions even, like me who believe that a heightened emphasis on money as the measuring stick for human prosperity in the context of a zero-sum, us versus them, world view, is not really the right direction to go in.

It certainly wasn’t the direction strongly suggested by that anti-Trumpian counter-revolutionary named Bernie Sanders…now was it?

However, in my estimation, that’s exactly the direction in which “we” are going…at least for the next four years.

I’ve been operating on dual “career paths” in the last couple years. One in which I espouse this mindset I call “impact mindfulness” in my blog, Revolutionary Misfit, and in books, like The Impact Revolution and The Revolutionary Misfit Manifesto.

And the other where I tout the Costa Rica expat life and offer services for guided Costa Rica Expat Tours, or Costa Rica Expat Consulting, to anyone who thinks they might like to give Costa Rica expat living a try.

I have decided that it wouldn’t be a bad idea for those two paths to merge into a concept you might call Expat Mindfulness. And the change that has now been unleashed in the world, in the form of the Donald J. Trump, is a prime motivator behind my thinking.

Certainly this epiphany is part economically motivated. I do anticipate that many will decide that the direction the U.S.A. is going in just ain’t consistent with their values anymore. I believe that might give rise to more demand for my services.

Hey, we’ve all go to make a buck…right?

But there’s more to it than just that.

I’m thinking more in terms of tribe building.

If you’re one of those who might be thinking of making a change as drastic as leaving your country of birth…well, I want to give you some solace and some inspiration.

Solace in being part of a tribe of others who are of similar mindset. And inspiration in the form of a cogent reason to make your expat move…

Expat Mindfulness.

What Costa Rica offers is the opportunity to simplify one’s life…to reduce the clutter. It offers the opportunity to learn to be happy with less. The ticos, or citizens of Costa Rica, are wonderful examples of that.

Because, you see, the last “change” that the world needs is an even stronger sense of the accumulation mindset. That what really matters is my capability as an individual to become “super successful”, measured in terms of my ability to accumulate more stuff in a dog-eat-dog competitive context.

On the contrary, what the world needs right now is love, sweet love…to steal from a song.

No, really, what the world does need is a heightened sense of togetherness…of the Big US.

What the world needs right now are more people willing to put their impact over their self-interest.

What the world needs right now are people willing to reject the impact blinding messages whispering that what’s most important is accumulation of more, more, more…even if it comes at the expense of people and planet.

Hasn’t our planet indeed been sending us ample signals as of late about the folly of that type of thinking and doing?

Trump and those who lifted him to his current position as most powerful man on earth seem to want to just completely ignore those signals.

But our planet will return the favor and ignore us unless enough of us rise up and resist.

Now, you can choose to resist at home, or abroad (in a place like Costa Rica!). If you’d like to give Expat Mindfulness a try…

I am here to offer you a hand in that effort.

In addition to the blog you are reading right now, learn more (and participate) about Expat Mindfulness at one or all of the following locations…

The Costa Rica Expat Tours website

The Costa Rica Expat Living Facebook Page

The Impact Revolution Facebook Page

Filed Under: Impact over Interest, Removing Impact Blinders, The Big US Tagged With: Expat Mindfulness, impact mindfulness

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