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The Tale of Two Americas

January 24, 2017 by costaricaguy 1 Comment

The Tale of Two Americas

The American two-party political system has been the impetus for societal division for as long as I can remember.

Nevertheless, despite that fact, we’ve somehow managed to get along pretty well…

until now.

What happened?

In a word…well, two…Donald Trump.

We’ve now entered into a world in which two very distinct Americas exist. There has never been a time, at least not during my lifetime, when the tale of two Americas has been more pronounced, exaggerated and dangerous.

America is at war, ideologically.

The tale of two Americas has the battle camps divided along the lines of the exclusionary and the inclusionary.

You have the forces of Trump, the exclusionary ones. They are the America First’ers. They eschew diversity and embrace homogeneity. They want everyone to march to the lockstep of nativism. Their idea is that only the true-blood Americans, those born and bred, or legalized, on American soil, deserve to take part in its great dream.

But it goes even deeper. They want you to embrace capitalism run amok, fear all “outsiders”, and place god and country above science and common sense. Only those willing to accept that creed are worthy of being considered part of their team.

It’s not so much about what color you are on the outside as your color on the inside…and that sure as hell better be red, white and blue!

On the other side of the battle line are arrayed the inclusionary forces of the progressive mindset. They’re a younger crowd. They fear for their future. They accept wild-eyed ideas like science and secularism. They believe that government should work for all people, not just people who hate government.

They’re considered by the exclusionary forces to be grossly immoral and lacking in any traceable levels of intelligence.

The inclusionary forces adopt a different attitude about faith and spirituality. They view those concepts as highly personal concerns that should never, ever, exert an iota of influence over civic matters. This is an area where the exclusionary and inclusionary dramatically experience a parting of ways.

The exclusionary yearn for theocracy. The inclusionary clamor for secularism and humanism as the guiding forces of a government that is of, by and for people and planet.

It appears that “war” is inevitable. The exclusionary forces have the upper hand in that regard for they’re far more warlike. They are more than willing to force their ideology on those who oppose it with the slap of a bible, or at the point of a bayonet, or gun.

The picture I’ve painted above is hopefully only a metaphorical one. I don’t want to see American society torn asunder. Who wants that?

Do you?

But unfortunately, the tale of two Americas points to that as the direction we seem to be headed in.

And Donald J. Trump appears more than willing to lead us all directly over and into that abyss.

God help us all.

Filed Under: The Big US Tagged With: diversity, Donald Trump, two Americas

A President Who Made Me Proud

January 11, 2017 by costaricaguy Leave a Comment

A President Who Made Me Proud

I’ve experienced a total of 10 Presidents during my 56 years on this planet, some of whom I was too young to remember. But of the ones I can remember, I can’t really say that any of them inspired me to any great extent…well, except for this last one.

Now, does that mean I agree with EVERYTHING he did?

Hardly…

There are many things regarding the Presidency of Barack Hussein Obama that I didn’t like. However, none of them have the slightest thing to do with his birth certificate, his heritage, ethnicity, or the name that his parents chose to bestow upon him.

My objections have more to do with his promising a lot of change and delivering far too little. He was a too neoliberal and not nearly progressive enough for my preferences.

But his farewell speech last night was a great one. He always did give great speeches, you’ve got to give him that.

I particularly liked these lines…

So regardless of the station we occupy; we all have to try harder; we all have to start with the premise that each of our fellow citizens loves this country just as much as we do; that they value hard work and family just like we do; that their children are just as curious and hopeful and worthy of love as our own.

And that’s not easy to do. For too many of us it’s become safer to retreat into our own bubbles, whether in our neighborhoods, or on college campuses, or places of worship, or especially our social media feeds, surrounded by people who look like us and share the same political outlook and never challenge our assumptions. In the rise of naked partisanship and increasing economic and regional stratification, the splintering of our media into a channel for every taste, all this makes this great sorting seem natural, even inevitable.

And increasingly we become so secure in our bubbles that we start accepting only information, whether it’s true or not, that fits our opinions, instead of basing our opinions on the evidence that is out there.

There’s a great message of inclusivity in those lines. Earlier in this speech, I believe I even heard him use that all too familiar line that I’ve used quite often in this blog…”we’re all in this boat together.”

However, I am afraid that contained within that inspiring rhetoric is an ominous warning for the years to come.

Today I am watching with amazement (as well as amusement) the stark contrast between the President we said goodbye to last night and the reality posed by the one we face today. Donald Trump gave his first press conference. It was nothing less than I expected…in short, “a circus.” But wouldn’t you say that’s a fitting description for most of what surrounds this new President.

The problem, as I see it, is that I could never imagine Donald Trump uttering inspiring lines like those I lifted above from Obama’s farewell speech. I just don’t think Trump has it in him. Trump is a lot of things, but inclusive is not among them. Trump is about Trump. Either you’re for him, and what he stands for, or you’re an enemy. His press conference displayed that truth very well.

Now, I know many just loathe Obama. Many are my friends and acquaintances from my youth, growing up in South and North Carolina. That’s not Obama country! I’ve seen that hatred on display every day in my Facebook feed for the past 8 years.

However, I’m always a bit curious as to why. I’m afraid that all too often that hatred has as much to do with his birth certificate, his heritage, ethnicity, or the name that his parents chose to bestow upon him, as it does with any actual policy disagreement.

And therein lies the legacy of this president…

The legacy of an average middle class black man with an above average intellect, compassion and willingness to make an impact, who brought out the best in us and weathered the worst in us.

But, more than anything else, he is and always will be a president who made me proud.

Filed Under: The Big US Tagged With: Barack Hussein Obama, Obama, President Obama

What Does it Mean to Be an Expat?

December 26, 2016 by costaricaguy Leave a Comment

to be an Expat

I’ve been an expat in Costa Rica for a long time now. From a physical perspective being an expat means absence from one’s home country and presence in some foreign country.

However, to be an expat has more than simply physical connotations.

Let’s first discuss what it certainly does not mean…

To be an expat does not mean one is unpatriotic in any way. Some may feel that it does, but they’d be dead wrong.

In some ways I’ve grown more patriotic as a result of living out of the country for many years now. I believe that in large part stems from my being an observer, or someone on the outside looking in. I’ve been able to observe with a heightened sense of objectivity certain things about my country of birth that concern me deeply.

For example, I’ve been able to observe how U.S. interventionist or imperialistic polices have affected certain people negatively, which in my case means Latinos. I’ve been able to discern that if that has been the case in Latin America, perhaps our interventions in other areas of the world, such as the Middle East, have also been less than laudable.

I’ve been able to observe with a heightened sense of objectivity how the form of capitalism run amok that prevails in my country of birth has widened the inequality gap. It has also led to a reckless disregard for how the pursuit of money and material has taken a heavy toll on the well-being of people and planet. Sometimes those effects aren’t as readily apparent to those on the inside of a wealthy nation like the U.S. as they are to those in the so-called 3rd world.

These observations have not caused me to have contempt for my country, but rather to long for it to be the world leader for positive change that it historically has been.

The U.S. has in large part lost its way in that regard. And the entire world is suffering for it. The world needs the U.S. to lead in positive directions, away from soaring income and wealth inequality, and away from dependence on fossil fuels. But the U.S. refuses to lead. And the recent election of Donald Trump only strengthens its resistance to assume the role of positive leadership in the world at large.

To be an expat means to have one’s eyes opened. To get the chance to really see things from the perspective of others who are very different. It provides ample opportunities to exercise the empathy muscle and to improve one’s capacity for altruism and impact. I call that expat mindfulness.

To be an expat does not have to mean permanent physical removal from presence in one’s country of birth. The ability to go back is always an option. Of course, one can also be a part-time expat.

I believe time in a foreign country can truly heighten one’s ability to make an impact in one’s country of birth. It sensitizes you to things you might otherwise be desensitized to. It heightens your sense of awareness. You become a more well-rounded human being. And all those are very positive traits from undergoing the expat experience and increasing your expat mindfulness.

I’ve written much in the past in my blogs and books about how being an expat in Costa Rica has changed me. It has made me a more humble and compassionate person. Some of my former friends and family members in the U.S. will say that it’s turned me into a left-wing loon.

Well, it has made me more progressive. It has made me more inclusive. It has allowed me to see the error of capitalism run amok in ways that I probably would’ve never detected without the expat experience. It has made me care more about my impact than about my economic self-interest. It has allowed me to see things more from the perspective of the Big US. It has removed many impact blinders that I came to Costa Rica wearing.

In short, it has been responsible for implanting impact mindfulness as my current mindset and worldview.

In that sense, I guess it has turned me into what I like to call, a Revolutionary Misfit. However, I don’t view that transformation in any negative light.

If you’re thinking of taking the plunge and moving to a foreign country, perhaps motivated by the recent election, remember this…no matter where you go, you’ll still be an “American” by birth. If you love your country it can actually make you love it more, albeit for different reasons. It will make you long for change and might even provide the motivation to be a catalyst for that change yourself.

To be an expat and thereby increase one’s expat mindfulness can be an intensely patriotic endeavor. [It’s Tweetable!]

You can read more about Expat Mindfulness, Impact Mindfulness and Being an Expat in Costa Rica in my books.

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Filed Under: Impact over Interest, Removing Impact Blinders, The Big US Tagged With: Expat Mindfulness, impact mindfulness

The Politics of Political Expression

November 30, 2016 by costaricaguy 1 Comment

The Politics of Political Expression

Isn’t it true that we tend to live our lives in the “grey areas”, while we express ourselves politically in stark black or white terms?

Why is that?

Perhaps it’s because politics, in the U.S. and in other countries throughout the world, is like a team sport.

Think about it. Political parties market themselves much like sports teams…with colors, logos, slogans, heroes and such.

It would seem that the explosion of Donald Trump onto the political scene has only increased that “team” aspect.

And we like being part of a team, don’t we?

That need for “team” solidarity is embedded in our DNA. We feel secure as part of a team. There is strength in numbers, right? We like the popularity we experience with other team members. We like the solace of being part of a like-thinking tribe.

We believe it increases our chances of winning.

Even so, in the reality of our day-to-day lives we live shoulder to shoulder with opposing team members. And so far, we’ve been doing a pretty good job of it. Your co-workers aren’t all team members, are they? And yet you get along with them…at least well enough to get the job done…right?

But all that “kumbaya” is quickly tossed out the window as soon as politics enters the discussion and the polarization of team membership kicks in.

It seems that so far we’ve done a pretty good job at separating real life from politics. We’ve been managing the politics of political expression fairly well in the hum-drum of daily life.

Now, that’s actually a semi-facetious statement, since our real lives are governed to a large extent by what transpires, or fails to transpire, in politics. Nevertheless, the point is that we normally get through Thanksgiving Dinner without throwing a turkey leg at uncle so-and-so.

Of course, politicians on opposing teams hardly ever get along. And that often renders them basically ineffective. But we can’t live our lives that way…can we? If we did, boy what a mess that would be!

However, it also seems more and more these days that political expression is seeping into our day-to-day lives. That might be largely due to the time we spend living them on social media…don’t you think?

And perhaps for too many people, the politics of political expression translates into spending too much time posting polarizing memes on Facebook, or “mean tweeting” insults about the opposing team.

What happens when this polarization becomes such a predominant aspect of our lives that we as a society can no longer get along?

Can society survive that? Is it sustainable? What does it mean for future generations if society suffers complete breakdown as a result of the politics of political expression?

Kind of a scary scenario, isn’t it?

We could be headed in that direction. There are some strong indications that we are.

My message this morning is only this: maybe we should give that some serious thought.

Filed Under: Removing Impact Blinders, The Big US Tagged With: Donald Trump, political expression, removing impact blinders, the big us

Expat Mindfulness

November 23, 2016 by costaricaguy 2 Comments

Expat Mindfulness

Donald Trump is President. That’s a fact.

That will mean different things to different people. Some will rejoice. Others will lament.

But what will it really mean, in general, for people and planet?

More than likely it will mean change. Things are probably going to change in the U.S.A. and in the world. The question is, will they change for the better?

I’ve been writing in my blog for quite a while now that America, and the world, does in fact desperately need a change in direction. I just don’t believe that Donald Trump is the right one.

Trump’s election will most likely usher in a renewed sense of “putting America first”, or of “American Exceptionalism”…as if the rest of the world just doesn’t matter all that much.

And in that effort, jobs will likely be created. Heck, the stock market is already rallying in anticipation of all that pent-up demand being released into the market-sphere.

However, I have a sense that there are many, millions even, like me who believe that a heightened emphasis on money as the measuring stick for human prosperity in the context of a zero-sum, us versus them, world view, is not really the right direction to go in.

It certainly wasn’t the direction strongly suggested by that anti-Trumpian counter-revolutionary named Bernie Sanders…now was it?

However, in my estimation, that’s exactly the direction in which “we” are going…at least for the next four years.

I’ve been operating on dual “career paths” in the last couple years. One in which I espouse this mindset I call “impact mindfulness” in my blog, Revolutionary Misfit, and in books, like The Impact Revolution and The Revolutionary Misfit Manifesto.

And the other where I tout the Costa Rica expat life and offer services for guided Costa Rica Expat Tours, or Costa Rica Expat Consulting, to anyone who thinks they might like to give Costa Rica expat living a try.

I have decided that it wouldn’t be a bad idea for those two paths to merge into a concept you might call Expat Mindfulness. And the change that has now been unleashed in the world, in the form of the Donald J. Trump, is a prime motivator behind my thinking.

Certainly this epiphany is part economically motivated. I do anticipate that many will decide that the direction the U.S.A. is going in just ain’t consistent with their values anymore. I believe that might give rise to more demand for my services.

Hey, we’ve all go to make a buck…right?

But there’s more to it than just that.

I’m thinking more in terms of tribe building.

If you’re one of those who might be thinking of making a change as drastic as leaving your country of birth…well, I want to give you some solace and some inspiration.

Solace in being part of a tribe of others who are of similar mindset. And inspiration in the form of a cogent reason to make your expat move…

Expat Mindfulness.

What Costa Rica offers is the opportunity to simplify one’s life…to reduce the clutter. It offers the opportunity to learn to be happy with less. The ticos, or citizens of Costa Rica, are wonderful examples of that.

Because, you see, the last “change” that the world needs is an even stronger sense of the accumulation mindset. That what really matters is my capability as an individual to become “super successful”, measured in terms of my ability to accumulate more stuff in a dog-eat-dog competitive context.

On the contrary, what the world needs right now is love, sweet love…to steal from a song.

No, really, what the world does need is a heightened sense of togetherness…of the Big US.

What the world needs right now are more people willing to put their impact over their self-interest.

What the world needs right now are people willing to reject the impact blinding messages whispering that what’s most important is accumulation of more, more, more…even if it comes at the expense of people and planet.

Hasn’t our planet indeed been sending us ample signals as of late about the folly of that type of thinking and doing?

Trump and those who lifted him to his current position as most powerful man on earth seem to want to just completely ignore those signals.

But our planet will return the favor and ignore us unless enough of us rise up and resist.

Now, you can choose to resist at home, or abroad (in a place like Costa Rica!). If you’d like to give Expat Mindfulness a try…

I am here to offer you a hand in that effort.

In addition to the blog you are reading right now, learn more (and participate) about Expat Mindfulness at one or all of the following locations…

The Costa Rica Expat Tours website

The Costa Rica Expat Living Facebook Page

The Impact Revolution Facebook Page

Filed Under: Impact over Interest, Removing Impact Blinders, The Big US Tagged With: Expat Mindfulness, impact mindfulness

On Moving Forward

November 13, 2016 by costaricaguy 1 Comment

On Moving Forward

There are certain facts that we just have to face in this life.

Donald J. Trump is now president of the U.S.A.

My mom is no longer with me.

Those are two that have hit me within the last two weeks like a ton of bricks. Nevertheless, both have become facts of life that I must live with…while moving forward.

It’s an understatement to say that the last two years of my life have been the toughest to date. And the last two weeks the toughest of those last two years.

I’ve always considered myself to be a very optimistic person. But in the face of all this, it’s damn hard to remain that way.

But, really, what are my choices? What are our choices?

Oh sure, we can despair. We can give up hope. We can give up trying to make our lives better…and the world better. We can give up on making an impact. After all, our vote certainly didn’t seem to matter.

However, giving up is not the answer. Not for me…and not for you.

I launched a GoFundMe campaign about two months ago. I’ve revised the description a couple of times, as if words might matter. I’ve always suffered under the illusion that they do.

The bottom line is that even though I am resolutely determined to move forward, I still need a little help in doing so. I can see a glimpse of light, but there’s still a ways to go before I reach it.

I woke up this morning as determined as ever to move forward, despite the uncertainties of my life. I woke up determined to move ahead in spite of Trump’s victory.

It is what my mom would want me to do.

I have many projects and goals I am trying to move forward on…

  • My real estate business – both residential and commercial…
  • My Expat Tours – which are directly connected to my success with real estate…
  • My Vacation Tours – for Costa Rica and Colombia…
  • My Writing – I want to offer my books in written form…
  • Podcasts – I want to start two: one for The Impact Revolution and another for Expat Living…
  • Indigenous Arts and Crafts Sales – a sustainable business I’ve been involved with successfully in the past, which is a great way to have an impact…
  • Hydroponic Gardening – I put this one on the back-burner over the last year while I focused on real estate. That was probably a mistake and I want to reignite and reinvigorate the effort.

Many things on the above list I can move forward on right now and I am doing so. Some things, however, require funds that I just do not have at the moment. That is a major reason for launching this campaign.

I have a clear set of goals for each and I know that I can succeed…with a little help from my friends.

Speaking of help from friends, I wanted to take a moment to thank a few friends who have lent me some light…

  • Chris Palazzari
  • Dianna Adams
  • Teresa Berlin
  • Scott Sherman
  • Ed Flaspoehler
  • Michael Weiner

Most of this light was contributed directly to me, i.e., it does not show up in the official campaign results. But that doesn’t make it one iota less impactful. I want to thank each of you from the very bottom of my heart for what you did for me…for the light you extended to me. You are all a blessing and I will never, ever forget.

I am going to be OK. Our nation will be OK. Our world will be OK. But only if we stick together. Only if we remember that we’re all on this planetary ship together. Only if we put our impact over self-interest. Only if we refuse to be blinded by the insidious and erroneous mindset of us versus them. There is no “them.” There’s really only one Big US.

The truth is that we don’t have to all think alike, politically or otherwise, in order to realize that the best path for moving forward is one of connection and cooperation.

So, I am reaching out, not just for help, but also to extend encouragement. Don’t give up hope. Stay in the fight.

Our world is depending on your impact.

My GoFundMe Campaign

Because we all get by with a little help from our friends.

Filed Under: Impact over Interest, Removing Impact Blinders, The Big US Tagged With: Donald J. Trump, GoFundMe Campaign

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