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The Elite Forces of No

May 13, 2014 by costaricaguy 1 Comment

the elite forces of no

I’m a big Seth Godin fan…

I’ve been one for years…even before it was cool.

I haven’t run across too many of Godin’s pithy prognostications that I didn’t wholeheartedly believe in…

until today.

Seth posted…and I quote…

No is essential

If you believe that you must keep your promises, over-deliver and treat every commitment as though it’s an opportunity for a transformation, the only way you can do this is to turn down most opportunities.

No I can’t meet with you, no I can’t sell it to you at this price, no I can’t do this job justice, no I can’t come to your party, no I can’t help you. I’m sorry, but no, I can’t. Not if I want to do the very things that people value my work for.

No is the foundation that we can build our yes on.

from Seth’s blog
May 13, 2014

I’m also a fan of Mr. Jonathan Shields. His Good Life Project is often inspirational for me.

Jonathan apparently agreed with Seth as he tweeted out the above post this morning.

Well, that didn’t surprise me at all.

You see, I have been on the other end of a couple of Field’s noes (or is it no’s?)

I was looking for endorsements to an eBook I wrote and sent a copy over to JF.

No response…which I took as a NO.

Oh sure, he might’ve hated it…how would I know as I never received any response at all (again, Jonathan is very adept at taking Seth’s advice).

I also learned recently that Jonathan was in Costa Rica. So, being the Costa Rica Guy that I am, I offered my considerable expertise (hey, it’s the one thing I can legitimately claim expertise about).

While he did politely respond…

he declined the offer as he already had it all covered.

Now, I don’t blame or resent either of those no’s.

He’s a busy guy and I am a NO-body…

But I will use them to make this morning’s post point…

And that is, that Mr. Godin needn’t worry…

the elite forces of no are alive and well.

Why do I say “elite” forces?

Because folks like Seth and Jonathan, as well as many others whom I admire, tend to reserve their yes’s for those on their level or above…

It’s a bit uncommon for a yes to flow downward…

And that’s not a rare phenomenon in our world…

Consider that…

  • banks tend to say yes only to those who don’t really need their money…
  • employers tend to say yes to those in least need of a job…
  • universities tend to say yes to those in least need of an education…
  • venture capitalists tend to say yes to those in least need of capital…
  • hot chicks tend to say yes to those in least need of a date…

I could go on.

We love to say yes to those most like us, or to those whom we most aspire.

Why is that?

Does that make the world a better place?

I don’t think so.

So, as much as I usually like to agree with Seth and Jonathan…

here’s one case where I get to say NO.

I was busy yesterday with something when I heard someone outside the house yelling for me. I sighed and went downstairs to see who was invading my space…

it was a young guy who comes by from time to time and washes my car…

I believe he has or has had a drug problem.

Anyway, he asked me for money to take the bus back to San Jose…said he had been living on the street and just wanted to go home to his mom…

My first reaction was to take Seth’s advice. After all, this kid is certainly NOT my responsibility.

But then I remembered what this blog is about…what I want my life to be about…

impact.

So I said yes. I had to actually leave my house and drive to a cash machine to deliver on it.

It was inconvenient.

It might have been fruitless.

But it felt like the right thing to do.

My point this morning is this…

Impact mindfulness might mean letting your yes’s flow downward and your no’s upward for a change.

Sorry Seth…

and Jonathan.

The culture of no that your propagating might be more convenient for you…

but it’s just not impact mindful.

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Filed Under: Impact over Interest Tagged With: impact over interest, jonathan fields, seth godin

The Body Mind Connection

May 7, 2014 by costaricaguy 2 Comments

the body mind connection

You can’t change the world if you feel like shit…

from sticky note on CRG’s bathroom mirror

Impact mindfulness is about changing the world…

I mean that’s the objective, right?

I listened to an interesting Unmistakable Creative podcast episode this morning. Srini was interviewing Meg Worden. Now, you probably don’t know this, but Meg spent 2 years in Federal prison for dealing ecstasy…that’s an “awful” drug that’s possibly the best cure for PTSD (post traumatic stress disorder). But, even so, taking it and certainly selling it, can still get you in a whole lot of trouble…as Meg found out.

Meg talks a lot about the connection between the body and the mind. Meg called it the “mind-body” connection, but I like to think of the concept more in terms of the body mind connection.

That is, how what we do to and with our bodies affects our mind…the core of our creative capacity.

In the interview, she made the point that this connection is especially important when it comes to creative types…those crazies who want to create something that is going to have an impact on the world…

or, folks like…me!

Problem is, I’m  often NOT cognizant of it.

Or, willfully inattentive, perhaps?

It’s part and parcel of my rebellious nature, I think.

I have written in the past about how self-indulgence is my creativity kryptonite.

That’s sort of exactly what Meg’s getting at.

To be mindful of what it is you’re consuming into your body…physically and mentally…

garbage in…garbage out…so to speak.

Her message resonated with me because from my own experience I can attest and say right on Meg!

Even though I don’t always take her extremely wise advice.

I am considering a new book (on the heels of my soon to be published Revolutionary Misfit Manifesto) about Practical Impacts…

That is, practical ways to put impact mindfulness into practice in your actual day-to-day lives.

Most of what we talk about here are remote impacts…that is, how we can put these concepts into practice to make life better for others…for people and planet…

but how about for ourselves?

If what we are doing is self-destruction, maybe in subtle ways, but destructive nonetheless, then our ability to have an impact will probably fizzle and flop…

in other words, as the opening quote suggests…

it’s extremely hard to change the world when you feel like shit.

So, my point this morning is about a practice of impact mindfulness that starts with ourselves…

that is, being mindful about how we treat our own bodies…

and minds.

I don’t always do so well in that regard.

How about you?

Are you mindful about what you eat, drink, listen to, look at, take in, ingest, digest, soak up and consume?

It’s really important to the overall concept of impact mindfulness because the ability to be a change agent starts right here…

with me.

And I’m the one with 100% control here.

So, really there are no excuses in this case.

Because if I’m less than a whole, integrated and healthy human…I am a far less effective change agent.

So, what you put in your mouth and ultimately what slides down into the stomach and gradually filters through the blood stream and becomes a part of you…

does matter.

As does what enters the portal of consciousness called the eyes and filters its way into that muscle of creative capacity called the brain.

Be more careful…and mindful about those things…

and ultimately become a more impact-full human being.

Let’s do this together, hold each other accountable…

I need that!

OK?

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Filed Under: Impact over Interest Tagged With: impact over interest, meg worden, srini rao, unmistakable creative

Visible Hands

April 17, 2014 by costaricaguy 2 Comments

 

visible hands

They are led by an invisible hand to make nearly the same distribution of the necessaries of life, which would have been made, had the earth been divided into equal portions among all its inhabitants, and thus without intending it, without knowing it, advance the interest of the society, and afford means to the multiplication of the species.

Adam Smith, The Theory of Moral Sentiments, 1759

What are the underpinnings of capitalism and the idea of a laissez-faire free market economy?

Well, if you mean the U.S. version of it, the writings of Adam Smith would be a good place to start.

Smith’s theory presupposed a market in which people freely bargaining for property in the pursuit of their own selfish ends would be guided by an invisible hand to produce results that would benefit society as a whole.

And this would just happen wholly unbeknownst to the market participants themselves.

Meaning, they would not have to, nor need to, carry out any altruistic motives whatsoever…

in fact that would just muck up the works.

Actually, maybe Smith didn’t mean that at all, but that’s what Milton Friedman, the high priest of modern capitalism, would certainly tell us that he meant.

In fact, the place to which Smith’s reference of an “invisible hand” is most often referred, The Wealth of Nations, is usually taken entirely out of context, since Smith was referring exclusively to the potential evils of foreign trade to the British economy.

Nevertheless, how exactly has this invisible hand idea been interpreted and what are the implications?

What even is this invisible hand?

God?

Now many freedom loving capitalists seem to hold fast to the notion that capitalism is indeed a god-ordained system.

I’m not sure if that’s what Smith was getting at. But certainly he was referring to some sense of an ethereal goodness that would serve as an unseen market governor.

That is, some force of good has to be working behind the scenes, guiding the market forces to work for the good of the whole.

That indeed does sound…good…at least in theory…but how has it worked out in visible practice?

How has the invisible hand been doing?

The results?

Not so stellar.

My quandary is not necessarily with the idea of a free market. It’s with the idea of the invisible hand that supposedly directs it.

You see, the underlying force that is driving this market along is self interest…

greed.

Friedman would readily agree with that.

Now greed…isn’t that one of the 7 deadly sins?

Doesn’t sound like good to me.

So a market that is driven along by greed is supposed to just deliver, how mysteriously, a good result for us all?

We can look around and see clearly that it hasn’t in many respects.

Oh yes, it delivers a superb result for some, an increasingly smaller sum, but others are left in the dust.

No, not just “left” there, but often put and/or kept there.

So, does that mean the answer lies in capitalism’s opposite…

a market that isn’t free?

No, because in those cases Marx’s collectivist control always tends to turn out even more corrupt and evil than Ayn Rand’s notion of individualist free reign.

Maybe the answer does not lie with “the system” at all.

How can goodness prevail in a system where people strive to take advantage of one another…in the midst of a zero-sum game?

So that the bounty of the winners is just supposed to somehow inure to the benefit of the losers?

Or, “trickle-down” as they tell us.

No, I believe goodness prevails with people doing things that go against their self-interest. It prevails when people look after one another and our planet…

the source of the resources without which the “system” has no chance of operating either efficiently…

or at all.

To coin a phrase, it occurs when people are “impact mindful”, not self-interest driven…

not greedy.

I think it’s time that we stop putting our faith in the system…

in the invisible hand…

and start putting it in our own visible hands.

The system has already wreaked it’s havoc on people and planet…

and it is people, you and me, visible hands, that must pick up the pieces and try to put it all back together.

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Filed Under: Impact over Interest Tagged With: adam smith, capitalism, free market, greed, impact over interest

A Corrupting Motivator

April 8, 2014 by costaricaguy 1 Comment

a corrupting motivator

What’s the best way to get people to follow your blog?

Bribe them!

We call that in Costa Rica…chorizo!

Costa Rica just kicked out the affluent political party that had dominated the scene for a long time…

they got their collective asses stomped…

Why?

They were addicted to chorizo and the ticos got tired of feeding it to them.

But bribes work wonders…sometimes…or, at least, for a time.

Until people wise up.

I see a lot of sites out there promising an awful lot of goodness to their followers.

Bribing their followers with tall tales of economic ecstasy.

Sites in which the author or guru has met with some degree of monetary success and wants to teach you how to do the same.

After all, money IS the key to happiness…right?

Funny, but Revolutionary Misfit kinda goes at it from an entirely different angle…

a “revolutionary” angle.

By suggesting that you forget about money.

Or, at least change the way you think about it.

That money is not the KEY to anything…good.

Well, someone will argue, with a whole lot of money I can do a whole lot of good.

Problem with that is that money is the way our society generally rewards greed…

and…

When men and women are rewarded for greed, greed becomes a corrupting motivator.

John Perkins, Confessions of an Economic Hit Man

Corrupting in what way, you ask?

In terms of what men and women are willing to do to people and to planet in order to acquire it.

But wait, we do NEED money…to live…don’t we?

No, we need food, water, clothing, shelter and perhaps human interaction to live…not money.

The proof comes in the fact that the majority of the earth’s population LIVES without any money at all, or so little of it as to almost equate, in U.S. terms,

…to nothing.

But money buys us those things we need, doesn’t it?

Unfortunately, the current system IS set up that way.

At least for the time being.

But changing the way one thinks about money means that while we may “use it” to acquire things we truly need…

we shouldn’t try to use it as the vehicle to acquire…

happiness.

But that seems to be what many well-intentioned sites tell us.

Do it this way or that way, and the river of money induced happiness will flow right past your place.

You can control your destiny.

By being one of those rare economically successful online entrepreneurs.

The problem, at least the one that has at times played out in my life, is that the more that money finds its way into your life…

the more control it exerts.

That is the premise of Perkins’ book, Confessions of an Economic Hit Man.

That the more money flowed into the coffers of 3rd World countries, the more that money exacted its degree of control and influence in those countries.

And the same is true in our very own lives.

That’s why this site doesn’t propose to teach you how to make money.

And I fully realize because of that, far less people will pay attention to it…

sadly.

No, it proposes to suggest that you live your life for another reason altogether.

That is, unless and until you take charge by realizing and doing what you were put here for…

you’ll never truly be happy.

And that is to make an impact…

a dent in the universe…

to be a happiness promoter…

not an economically incentivized happiness pursuer…

Then and only then will your life be as it should be…

above and beyond the corrupting influence of money.

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Filed Under: Impact over Interest Tagged With: confessions of an economic hit man, impact over interest, john perkins, money

Struggling

April 1, 2014 by costaricaguy 4 Comments

struggling

Have you ever had your water or electricity cut off?

Why do we have to pay for that shit anyway?

This morning feeling that all too familiar sense of struggle…

that life is just one long struggle for survival.

Ever get that sense?

It’s a struggle for most people, me included, to just find a small air pocket in your constantly sinking ship.

To suck in just one more day of life.

But what is it that I’m really struggling against?

Forces out there…

or in here?

If I pause and give that some thought, I come up with not so surprisingly self-originating answers…

such as…

Self-Loathing – which for me seems to be the root of my recurring depression and despair.

Self-Destruction – a tendency that often makes life’s struggles annoyingly arduous.

Self-Pity – a party that no ones wants to join in.

Self-ish-ness – and there is never enough to fill that hole up with satisfaction.

Self-Indulgence – as I have stated before…my Creativity Kryptonite.

Self-Centered-ness – that creates the false illusion that I am alone in this struggle.

Hmm, that’s about it.

So self somehow seems set at the senter of my struggle (with “center” miss-spelled intentionally to make me feel good about something…in this case, my relentless capacity to illiter).

At any point in time you’ll find me struggling.

To pay the goddamn bills.

With relationship issues (currently going through my 3rd separation from my current wife…yea, you heard right…3rd!).

With my tendency to self-destruct whenever I am struggling against something (which I mentioned was mostly all the time).

With this all too frequent feeling that I just don’t measure up to the person I really would prefer to be.

For instance, I feel this blog has a vital message for the world to hear, but I constantly struggle with self-doubt about my worthiness to be the person bringing that message.

And that self-doubt is reinforced by the fact that I struggle to find any one to pay attention.

Hey, just identified another source…

Self-doubt.

Yea, that’s a big one.

Sometimes I just feel like throwing in the towel.

Like Roberto Duran.

I’ve just had about enough of this shit…

I’ll say to my…self.

Then from out of nowhere…like a bolt of proverbial lightning (the best and safest kind)…

inspiration hits.

I get this feeling that even though I struggle…it’s all worth it.

It’s worth fighting against.

And that inspiration is rarely (no…never) about me.

It’s about you.

It’s about what I might be able to do or say or think that could possibly have an impact on your world.

Despite my limitations.

And defects.

And weaknesses.

And the ugliness that still exists in my life.

Something beautiful has the capacity to emerge.

That my seemingly insignificant life…

really…

isn’t.

That’s true inspiration.

And it gives me a reason to go forward…

one second-minute-hour-day more…

into the darkness of struggle…

sword drawn…

and ready to fight the good fight…

against that demon who looks an awful lot like…

me.

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Filed Under: Impact over Interest Tagged With: impact over interest, struggle, struggling

What Interests Me Most?

March 27, 2014 by costaricaguy Leave a Comment

social network revolution

The social network revolution is in full force these days.

It’s common on these social network sites to be asked to reveal your interests.

That is, what interests me most?

And we’re advised to connect with other people and to feign a genuine interest in what is going on in their lives.

But in reality the underlying motive in all this is really self-interest, isn’t it?

We have something to sell so we try to connect with as many people as possible, under the guise of being “interested”, in order to subtly suggest that they buy.

I guess it just goes against human nature to be more interested in others than one is in him or herself.

The realization that people really don’t give a rat’s behind about anything but themselves is a lesson that often comes later in life.

As a general matter, they don’t care about, nor are they interested in, you or anything about you.

It kinda hurts…

Don’t believe it? Just try to start a blog and then get someone to actually pay attention to it…

It is the dawning of the realization that “survival of the fittest” means that you better look out for number one because nobody else is going to.

But is that the way it was meant to be?

Do you really think the creator of all that is, or god (if you believe in that sort of concept), really designed us to be little bastions of self-interest?

Have you ever met someone who is genuinely un-self-interested?

That is a rare person to come across.

I can’t say that I have, at least not in person.

I mean people like Mother Teresa and Gandhi come to mind, or Jesus.

People who really didn’t care about what was in it for them and worked hard and sacrificed even to the point of death to make life better for others.

How was life for them I wonder?

What is it like to be completely un-self-interested?

Is it liberating, or confining?

Does it bring joy, or misery, hardship and disappointment?

I wouldn’t know, being a person who has lived his 53 years relatively, say 90%, self-interested.

It seems to me that although the aforementioned suffered in life, they certainly left a remarkable legacy. They accomplished great things despite their apparent disdain or indifference towards power, prestige or promotion.

Take politicians for example. What is it that they’re really after?

Is it to serve the people, or just to get re-elected?

And why is getting re-elected so important?

What is it about Washington, D.C. that’s so enticing to them? I lived there for a year and it wasn’t all that.

I would venture a guess that 99.99% of them are more concerned about “what’s in this for me” than they are about “what’s in this for us”…

wouldn’t you agree?

But what if we really weren’t created to be so self-interested.

Maybe we were designed to be more like Mother Teresa, Gandhi, or even like Christ.

Maybe real success, fulfillment, joy and even abundance is found in being genuinely un-self-interested.

Maybe the right way to view this social network revolution is not in finding out how to harness its power for me, but in harnessing its power to do something to improve the lives of others.

Just a thought.

Let’s face it, the correct answer to that frequent question about what interests me most is…

ME.

But maybe real “success” can be found in having the capacity to answer that question, truthfully, with a simple…

Y-O-U.

I want you to be concerned about your next door neighbor. Do you know your next door neighbor?

Mother Teresa

 

Man becomes great exactly in the degree in which he works for the welfare of his fellow-men.

Mohandas Gandhi

 

I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.

Jesus Christ in John 10:10

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Filed Under: Impact over Interest Tagged With: impact over interest, self-interest

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