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The Rise and Fall of Donald Trump

October 8, 2016 by costaricaguy Leave a Comment

The Rise and Fall of Donald Trum

I’ve been highly critical of Donald Trump, both the man and the candidate. But, believe it or not, there was a time when I admired him.

Like many people, I read The Art of the Deal…a long time ago. I was inspired by that famous line, where he passes a homeless guy in the street and says (paraphrasing)…”See that guy? He’s worth $999 million more than me.” It was inspiring to me that he clawed his way back despite serious setbacks. Of course, I now know that he did so in ways that hurt others.

Donald Trump has created a brand that supposedly personifies success. The underlying theme of his candidacy is “make America great again”…or, make Americans successful again…successful like him. He tells his followers that they’re going to win like they’ve never won before.

And we all want to be winners, right? We all want to be “successful.”

But can we also admit that there are varying definitions of that word, success?

That is, success can mean different things to different people, can it not?

What does it mean for Donald Trump and his followers?

Well, obviously it means having a lot of money and the power that money imparts. Trump likes to flaunt that power, whether in saying “you’re fired”, or, as we’ve recently heard, claiming that he can do anything he wants with any woman he wants.

So, it’s not so much that people want the money that Donald Trump-style success brings, but the power. People want power because power feeds the ego. The more power Trump has, the larger his ego grows. And his seeking the presidency is the greatest ego-feeding power grab of his career.

His followers are not that different. They want to win too. They want power. And their support of his candidacy for president is the greatest ego-feeding power grab of their adult lives.

Donald Trump promises to give America back to those who feel it has been stolen from them. Stolen by government and handed over to the undeserving…the immigrants, the welfare queens, the dependency class, the powerless who’ve been unjustly empowered at the expense of white male middle-class America.

White, male, middle-class Americans want their ego back! They want to feel great again.

However, the latest Trump revelation could very well end up being the pin-prick that let’s all the air out of his candidacy…his ego…and the hope they’ve placed in him.

But isn’t that the problem with ego? After all, it’s not even real or tangible. It’s just a bunch of air that fills the vacuum of an empty soul. The air can puff you up and make you appear larger than life, but life has a way of deflating the ego, sooner or later. We’re seeing that happen right now to Donald Trump. The rise and fall of Donald Trump is happening very publicly. Perhaps we can learn from it.

Back when I admired Donald Trump my ego was pretty puffed up, I’ll admit. These days, however, life has me feeling fairly deflated. I really don’t have much of anything to be puffed up about. But, you know what, that’s a good thing. That’s been good for me. It’s enabled me to get a better grip on who I really am.

Perhaps Donald Trump can do the same. Maybe he can finally get a grip on who he really is. If he’s able to do that, it could change him the way it changed me.

You see Donald, in life there really are no winners and losers, just players. We’re all players in this game called life. And you know what else? We’re all on the same team…the human team. It’s not necessary to win, Donald, or to feed the ego by doing so. That’s really not what life is about.

It is, however, necessary to cooperate.

The rise and fall of Donald Trump and his colossal ego could be a great event for America. It could bring about the realization that what makes America great is not winning, or the power and ego-inflation that winning imparts. It’s the cooperation that comes from celebrating our differences and moving forward, together, despite them.

The rise and fall of Donald Trump could, potentially, be the pin-prick that deflates the collective ego that drives much of the division in America.

And that could be a very good thing.

The Rise and Fall of Donald Trump

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Stories Run Deep in Colombia

October 3, 2016 by costaricaguy Leave a Comment

Stories Run Deep in Colombia

Brexit…the scourge of Donald Trump…Colombia rejects peace…what is going on in this world?

It seems our world is going a little bit crazier by the minute. Deep political and philosophical divisions are being revealed. It seems like no time before in history, humanity is deeply divided.

How do we build “bridges of empathy” to ford the gaps between us in order to reach common ground and a brighter future?

Perhaps what just happened in Colombia is telling…

By narrow margin, Colombians rejected a peace deal that would end over 50 years of war…a war that left no Colombian untouched. Everyone expected that acceptance of the deal would be a slam dunk. Kind of like everyone expected that rejection of Brexit would be a slam dunk, or that a Clinton election landslide would be a slam dunk. However, the trends seem to defy expectations.

Anger is the fuel that’s driving many of these unexpected results. People are mad as hell and not in the mood to take it anymore. Anger is not always the best motivator of prudent action. Nevertheless, it pays to try to understand the anger, rather than to foment it, or even to try to delegitimize it.

Is there any common root to all this anger? Perhaps…

Perhaps it has to do with the deep stories of those who feel unfairly treated. There are millions of victims in Colombia who feel that way. Those stories run deep in Colombia. They saw their children forced into combat, their friends kidnapped or killed, the drug trade, which has been a scourge on the country for decades, protected and promoted, and the list goes on. The common ground may be peace, but anger is the gap that must be bridged in order to make peace a future reality.

In the U.S. many are angry. They are angry because they see the hope of the American dream slipping from their grasp. Anger often seeks to blame. But blame seldom produces results. What it produces is more anger.

A heartfelt attempt to understand the deep stories of those we disagree with is the quintessential act of empathy.

It’s also the best way to bridge the gaps that divide us and prevent us from moving forward, together, toward a better future.

The tactic of some is to widen those gaps, rather than to bridge them. In my opinion, that’s a losing strategy. It might win them short-term support, since it plays to the anger, and anger is certainly in vogue these days. But in the end, anger will not unite us, but only further divide us. And division is not going to create a better world…that requires connection.

Hopefully Colombians can take this pause in peace and try to really understand each other. Perhaps the right and the left in the U.S. can step back from the animosity generated by the ugliest presidential election of my lifetime and try to understand one another. People take the positions they take, as irrational as you might deem them to be, because of the deep stories that have become their experiences of life. Same as you and me.

People have their reasons to vote no on peace in Colombia, or to vote yes on Trump. In order to reach common ground it pays to make a genuine effort to understand those reasons. That doesn’t mean you have to agree with them. It does mean you have to empathize with the deep stories that are behind their reasons.

Yes, stories run deep in Colombia, as they do in the U.S., and all other parts of this world. I believe the future of people and planet depends on a heartfelt effort to understand the deep stories of those you disagree with.

Stories Run Deep in Colombia

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Filed Under: The Big US Tagged With: colombia peace, colombia peace deal

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